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Sunday, February 19, 2012

Sweet Ways To Tell The Hubby You Love Him!


As we enter into marriage, we may question how we ever lived life without our soulmate? As the marriage is still new you are utterly  & completely focused on one another but as time goes on things start to change. You get into a routine, have kids, & those make us focus less on each other but what some does not understand is that is does not have to be that way. Always remember what made the relationship become a marriage & never loose sight of that. I know I have always wondered as child how marriages lasted for over 30, 40, & 50 years haven't you? As I grew up I learned it was because they stayed focused on each other no matter what & always made time for their soulmate! I think these are some cute ways to let your significant other know you still love & cherish them  just as much now as you did when we first got married! Enjoy ladies...


1. Text him a message on his cell!
Throughout the day send him sweet messages of I miss you, I love you, or just something sweet to show you still care & value him...

2. Show appreciation!
When he has worked hard, or has done something sweet for you show him that you appreciate him for those things no matter how big or small it was...

3. Make your home together a refuge!
Make sure he is comfortable in the home you both share together! Make it almost as a safe haven to come home to...

4. Laugh @ his antics!
Do not let the little things the hubby may do get on your nerves because if you think about it some of the things is what may have attracted you to him. He just would not be the same without doing those things...

5. Check before rearranging!
Always check wit him if something needs to be changed no matter how big or small it may be...

6. Take a walk/hike together!
Let nature take its course if you will, hold hands together, talk, & listen it will become romantic I promise...

7. Don't expect him to read your mind!
If there is something you want your hubby to know then tell him what you want him to know because if you do not then he will never know because like it or not he cannot read our minds or know our every thought unless we let it be known...

8. Laugh together!
Forget that you both are adults for a little while & just be silly together kinda like old times in since...

9. Talk about the future!
If you have not had kids yet talk of when you want them, how life should be together in 5 years from now  & so on let him know that you want that future to be with him & only him...

10. Say I'm Sorry!
Although we may not want to admit it we will be wrong at times & our hubby's will be right & vise versa so always apologize when needed...

11. Keep your promises!
If you told your hubby you would do something for him or with him then do it & keep that promise you made to him...

12. Let bygones be bygones!
If your hubby has done or said something to hurt you, forgive him. Do not keep bringing up the past every single time you get into a disagreement, especially if he has shown remorse...

13. Be honest!
Do not ever hide things from your significant other be open & honest & he will trust you more...

14. Be devoted to him!
One of the greatest gifts that you could ever give your hubby is true faithfulness, which includes physically, emotionally, & in your thoughts...

15. Run your fingers through his hair!
Always remember that your touch is always wanted, needed, & important to him....

16. Defend him!
Do not ever let others disrespect your hubby do not let them to that to the one you love...

17. Pamper him when he is sick!
They may not always admit it but they love to be pampered when sick especially by the one they love. Make sure he is comfy & such during that time....

18. Look in his eyes!
Always make eye contact with the hubby when he speaks to you so he knows that you care & want to know what he has to say & truly care of his thoughts & opinions....

19. Display wedding photos!
Do not tuck away your wedding photos ever always keep them on display & let it show you both how much you was in love then & still are as well as letting others see how happy you both was on that day you said I DO...

20. Display marriage certificate!
Frame it & hang it on the wall in the house to keep as a constant reminder that your love is sealed & that you truly do love one another...

21. Make photos together!
Before marriage you always took them together whether it was just goofy ones, sweet ones, engagement, wedding & such so make sure to still take them once married & always keep them near by so you & others can see how happy in love you still are to be next to the one you love after all a picture is worth a thousand words...

22. Let him win!
You do not always have to win so let him win some it makes you both content that way...

23. Do not go to bed mad!
This is a huge one for me & something that I abide by always: never go to bed angry with pent up feelings, thoughts, or emotions its not healthy for either husband or wife. Talk things out work through them that is part of the marriage & even the best ones are not perfect & never will be ever... You will always argue with each other but its how you handle those that make the relationship stronger... Fall asleep in his arms & know that there is no where else on this earth you would  rather be then right their by his side cuddled in his loving arms...

24. Wake him up with kisses!
Ma ke his whole day better by waking him up with sweet kisses to the cheek, shoulder, lips & such & letting him know by those that you are thankful for him without even having to say the words...

25. Flirt with him!
Just because he is now your husband does not mean you no longer can be flirty instead be flirty, squeeze those muscles or his tight little booty, wink at him be playful as it always was before you said I Do...

26. Be his best friend!
Let him know that you will always be there when he needs to talk, laugh, or even cry let him be himself  & stick with him through thick & thin...

27. Cherish the small things!
Concentrate on how he walks, says your name, touches you, kisses you, & loves you those small things are actually the biggest things you can ever cherish & they will remain inside your heart for a lifetime...

28. Help him undress!
Caress his body as you help undress him & let him know you still love that body of his & him too & that you love the feel of it...

29. Do not complain!
Do not complain about how you live or where you live as long as he is providing for you both & taking care of you the best way that he knows how. Just be thankful you have each other at the end of the day...

30. Keep yourself attractive!
Its easy to fall into a housewife mode & walk around with no make up on, hair pulled up & such but do not do that. Instead keep your hair down, wear make up, smell pretty, look the part of an amazing hot momma & wife that your hubby so still longs for even after married...

31. Dare to be bold!
Make the move first at times so he knows that you still want him as much as he still wants you...

32. Do not deprive him!
Let's just be honest husbands needs sex just as much as wives needs hugs, kisses, & compliments.This is one of those ways that they feel loved by you so do it for them as they do it for us...

33. Kidnap him!
Plan a special evening for just the two of you, make arrangements, then show up after he gets off work put a smile on your face & say please get in the car with me as not to alarm him then have an amazing evening out together then later bring him back to pick up the vehicle...

34. Don't compare him!
Do not ever compare him to another man not even your own father. He is is own person & unique in his own ways & love him for that...

35. Just say it!
Always always always say I LOVE YOU even if he knows you do. Hearing it from you makes it ten times better always every single day...



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